Our country
is in the middle of a huge debate as to whether people of the same sex should
be allowed to be legally married; some states have already legalized it. But
there is another problem that arises from this issue, marriage has always been
defined as the union of a man (male) and a woman (female) and this still stands
in most Churches. But recently things have changed even within the Church, some
religions have chosen to follow the trend of modern society and allow
homosexuals to be Priests, Ministers or Pastors, even in some “Christian”
sects. This is a reflection of the sad state of Christianity in the world
today. We are being forced to follow today’s trend in society, which says don’t
make waves, let people live their lives the way they want. Unfortunately that
is not how Christ lived or how God wants us to live, Christ stood openly
against such hypocrisy!
We are expected to give others the freedom to say and do as they like, but we as Christians don’t receive the same treatment. It would seem as though Christians are the only ones who don't have rights these days. We are not allowed to speak openly about our beliefs (prayer in schools, pledge of allegiance, etc.) or to even have displays depicting scenes referring to Christ out in public anymore. Everywhere you look, TV, movies, the internet, all have jumped on the band wagon, helping to promote same sex relationships as normal. TV shows and even commercials have added scenes which depict homosexuals in everyday life, even as parents being normal.
Now this type of thing has even started to creep into the most scared of places, the Church, with some actually condoning this behavior by letting “gays” call themselves “Christians”. The problem arises with this question, can one be living in the sin of homosexually and also be a Christian? I believe the Bible says no, because when we answer the call of Christ to follow Him, we are to put the things of God ahead of our earthly desires and selfish indulgences, we are to became a new creation, by putting off the sins of the old person we are washed clean by the blood of Christ.
In Ephesians 4:17-24 it says “So I tell you this, and insist on it in the Lord, that you must no longer live as the Gentiles do, in the futility of their thinking. They are darkened in their understanding and separated from the life of God because of the ignorance that is in them due to the hardening of their hearts. Having lost all sensitivity, they have given themselves over to sensuality so as to indulge in every kind of impurity, with a continual lust for more. You however, did not come to know Christ that way. Surely you heard of him and were taught in him in accordance with the truth that is in Jesus. You were taught, with regard to your former way of life, to put off your old self, which is being corrupted by its deceitful desires; to be made new in the attitude of your minds; and to put on the new self, created to be like God in true righteousness and holiness.”
Let’s also consider 1Corinthians 6:18-20 which says “Flee from sexual immorality. All other sins a man commits are outside his body, but he who sins sexually sins against his own body. Do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit, who is in you, whom you have received from God? You are not your own; you were bought at a price. Therefore honor God with your body.”
So if you believe in the Bible as the inspired word of God and are truly a follower of Christ and not just a “fan”, than this is very important! It is basically telling us not to remain in the sins of our old life, i.e. homosexuality, adultery, thievery, drugs, alcohol, etc., but to start living a life that is honoring to God. God does not want us to continue doing the very things that separate us from Him. If you are truly sincere in wanting to follow Christ by becoming Christ like or Christian, you would want to honor God by letting go of your sexual desires for the same sex or at the very least remain celibate!
In John chapter 8:1-11, it tells of the woman the scribes and Pharisees brought before Jesus that was caught in the act of adultery and they wanted to stone. They quoted the Law of Moses to test Him, which said that she should be put to death and asked Jesus what should be done. At first Jesus acts as though He doesn’t hear them as He stoops down and draws in the dirt. Finally He stands and says “he who is without sin cast the first stone,” after thinking this over one by one they all walk away. When they had all gone, Jesus was left alone with the woman and He asked “where are your accusers, has no one condemned you?” She answers “no one, Lord” and He says “neither do I condemn thee, go and sin no more.” He later continued speaking to the people saying “I am the light of the world: he that followeth me shall not walk in darkness, but shall have the light of life.”
As you can see Jesus did not say “I don’t condemn you either, now go and continue in your sin!” Nor did He say “it’s ok I’ll be dying on the cross soon for your sins and all will be forgiven.” He specifically told her not to continue sinning.
I think the biggest miss conception that we all have and that we take for granted is that the forgiveness of the Cross means we can just keep sinning and in the end all will be forgiven. I don’t think there is real forgiveness if we never repent of our sins. 2 Peter 3:8-9 says “But do not forget this one thing, dear friends: With the Lord a day is like a thousand years, and a thousand years are like a day. The Lord is not slow in keeping his promise, as some understand slowness. He is patient with you, not wanting anyone to perish, but everyone to come to repentance.” To me that would mean that if God is waiting for us to repent and we never do, then we will perish by ending up in Hell. The only real forgiveness comes when we repent and try not to continue in sin. On the Day of Judgment we will face Christ and our name will either be found in the Book of Life or not. Because Christ knows our hearts, he will know if we have repented or not, if not we will be told by Christ “I never knew you!” Meaning you were not sincere and didn’t have a direct relationship with God through Christ. This point is also made very clear in the passage of 1 John 3:4-6 where we learn the following, “Everyone who sins breaks the law; in fact, sin is lawlessness. But you know that He appeared so that He might take away our sins. And in Him is no sin. No one who lives in Him keeps on sinning. No one who continues to sin has either seen Him or known Him.”
Christ’s death on the cross was not a blank check that we fill in as we go, it was a onetime deal, once for all, but it’s a gift that has to be accepted to count. The proof of the acceptance is in the change from our old life to the new one offered by Jesus. So I think the Church has to find a way to take in people with sins like homosexuality and help them to see the importance of making the change by using Biblical scripture to introduce them to what Jesus desires for us. We need to learn to have compassion and to treat them with love as Christ would do, not to condone their lifestyle but to help them grow in the Lord.
So according to Romans 3:22-24 which says “This righteousness from God comes through faith in Jesus Christ to all who believe. There is no difference, for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God, and are justified freely by his grace through the redemption that came by Christ Jesus,” we are all counted as sinners no matter how righteous we think we are. The only difference is that we as Christians have faith that Jesus will show us how to change our lives through his righteousness. The fact that they have shown up on the doorsteps of the Church, tells us that they are looking for the truth. So instead of rejecting them because of their lifestyle or condoning it, we need to step up in love and really try to help them see the change they need to make to become more like Christ or Christian!
We are expected to give others the freedom to say and do as they like, but we as Christians don’t receive the same treatment. It would seem as though Christians are the only ones who don't have rights these days. We are not allowed to speak openly about our beliefs (prayer in schools, pledge of allegiance, etc.) or to even have displays depicting scenes referring to Christ out in public anymore. Everywhere you look, TV, movies, the internet, all have jumped on the band wagon, helping to promote same sex relationships as normal. TV shows and even commercials have added scenes which depict homosexuals in everyday life, even as parents being normal.
Now this type of thing has even started to creep into the most scared of places, the Church, with some actually condoning this behavior by letting “gays” call themselves “Christians”. The problem arises with this question, can one be living in the sin of homosexually and also be a Christian? I believe the Bible says no, because when we answer the call of Christ to follow Him, we are to put the things of God ahead of our earthly desires and selfish indulgences, we are to became a new creation, by putting off the sins of the old person we are washed clean by the blood of Christ.
In Ephesians 4:17-24 it says “So I tell you this, and insist on it in the Lord, that you must no longer live as the Gentiles do, in the futility of their thinking. They are darkened in their understanding and separated from the life of God because of the ignorance that is in them due to the hardening of their hearts. Having lost all sensitivity, they have given themselves over to sensuality so as to indulge in every kind of impurity, with a continual lust for more. You however, did not come to know Christ that way. Surely you heard of him and were taught in him in accordance with the truth that is in Jesus. You were taught, with regard to your former way of life, to put off your old self, which is being corrupted by its deceitful desires; to be made new in the attitude of your minds; and to put on the new self, created to be like God in true righteousness and holiness.”
Let’s also consider 1Corinthians 6:18-20 which says “Flee from sexual immorality. All other sins a man commits are outside his body, but he who sins sexually sins against his own body. Do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit, who is in you, whom you have received from God? You are not your own; you were bought at a price. Therefore honor God with your body.”
So if you believe in the Bible as the inspired word of God and are truly a follower of Christ and not just a “fan”, than this is very important! It is basically telling us not to remain in the sins of our old life, i.e. homosexuality, adultery, thievery, drugs, alcohol, etc., but to start living a life that is honoring to God. God does not want us to continue doing the very things that separate us from Him. If you are truly sincere in wanting to follow Christ by becoming Christ like or Christian, you would want to honor God by letting go of your sexual desires for the same sex or at the very least remain celibate!
In John chapter 8:1-11, it tells of the woman the scribes and Pharisees brought before Jesus that was caught in the act of adultery and they wanted to stone. They quoted the Law of Moses to test Him, which said that she should be put to death and asked Jesus what should be done. At first Jesus acts as though He doesn’t hear them as He stoops down and draws in the dirt. Finally He stands and says “he who is without sin cast the first stone,” after thinking this over one by one they all walk away. When they had all gone, Jesus was left alone with the woman and He asked “where are your accusers, has no one condemned you?” She answers “no one, Lord” and He says “neither do I condemn thee, go and sin no more.” He later continued speaking to the people saying “I am the light of the world: he that followeth me shall not walk in darkness, but shall have the light of life.”
As you can see Jesus did not say “I don’t condemn you either, now go and continue in your sin!” Nor did He say “it’s ok I’ll be dying on the cross soon for your sins and all will be forgiven.” He specifically told her not to continue sinning.
I think the biggest miss conception that we all have and that we take for granted is that the forgiveness of the Cross means we can just keep sinning and in the end all will be forgiven. I don’t think there is real forgiveness if we never repent of our sins. 2 Peter 3:8-9 says “But do not forget this one thing, dear friends: With the Lord a day is like a thousand years, and a thousand years are like a day. The Lord is not slow in keeping his promise, as some understand slowness. He is patient with you, not wanting anyone to perish, but everyone to come to repentance.” To me that would mean that if God is waiting for us to repent and we never do, then we will perish by ending up in Hell. The only real forgiveness comes when we repent and try not to continue in sin. On the Day of Judgment we will face Christ and our name will either be found in the Book of Life or not. Because Christ knows our hearts, he will know if we have repented or not, if not we will be told by Christ “I never knew you!” Meaning you were not sincere and didn’t have a direct relationship with God through Christ. This point is also made very clear in the passage of 1 John 3:4-6 where we learn the following, “Everyone who sins breaks the law; in fact, sin is lawlessness. But you know that He appeared so that He might take away our sins. And in Him is no sin. No one who lives in Him keeps on sinning. No one who continues to sin has either seen Him or known Him.”
Christ’s death on the cross was not a blank check that we fill in as we go, it was a onetime deal, once for all, but it’s a gift that has to be accepted to count. The proof of the acceptance is in the change from our old life to the new one offered by Jesus. So I think the Church has to find a way to take in people with sins like homosexuality and help them to see the importance of making the change by using Biblical scripture to introduce them to what Jesus desires for us. We need to learn to have compassion and to treat them with love as Christ would do, not to condone their lifestyle but to help them grow in the Lord.
So according to Romans 3:22-24 which says “This righteousness from God comes through faith in Jesus Christ to all who believe. There is no difference, for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God, and are justified freely by his grace through the redemption that came by Christ Jesus,” we are all counted as sinners no matter how righteous we think we are. The only difference is that we as Christians have faith that Jesus will show us how to change our lives through his righteousness. The fact that they have shown up on the doorsteps of the Church, tells us that they are looking for the truth. So instead of rejecting them because of their lifestyle or condoning it, we need to step up in love and really try to help them see the change they need to make to become more like Christ or Christian!
